Thursday, August 09, 2007

It's a girl!!

Eliana Joy White was born August 7th at 1:59 p.m. She was 7 pounds 6 ounces and 20 inches long, with a head full of dark hair.



Here is Josh's narrative of the day:

I arise at 6:30 a.m. We need to drop the boys off at a friend’s house, and then head to the hospital. After getting myself ready and after unplugging the video and picture cameras from their respective power sources, I help get the kids to the car and we leave the house.

At 6:45 a.m., Rachel and I are on our way to Providence hospital. As we drive down Imperial, we see a family friend who is on his way to work. And, after mouthing, “Are you going to the hospital?” and reading “Yes” from our expressions, he gives us a thumb’s up and “Good luck!”

We get to the hospital at around 7:00 a.m. After Rachel changes clothes, there’s a lot of waiting.

Finally, at around 8:00 a.m. a woman by the name of May comes in and begins to set up a baby-delivery package on a table. After just a few minutes, Ms. May has arranged a wide array of medical instruments and cloth materials that might be needed at delivery. She instructs a intern nurse as to the various stages of “opening” a labor and delivery scene.

It’s 9:00 a.m. More waiting. The hospital room is cold, but Rachel doesn’t feel it. Because she is not in labor, I take a ten-minute break to warm up outside and to drink a glass of orange juice. When I return, Rachel and I watch a news story on a coal mining catastrophe in Huntington, Utah—as well as other headlines. We also talk about the boys’ school supplies, soccer sign-ups, and other things that need to be done this next week.

The anesthesiologist arrives at around 10 a.m. And, because of Rachel’s quick labors, he has been instructed to begin administration of the epidural before Rachel is given any labor-inducing drugs. Rachel is told to sit up with her back to the doctor so he can put in the spinal catheter. I decide not to watch. Minutes after Rachel sits up, three nurses come into the room and immediately begin checking monitors and quieting alarms. The baby’s heart rate has dropped to the low 40’s, and no one tells us why. Rachel and I are perplexed because labor hasn’t even begun; and we wonder whether an epidural can affect the baby. I ask some questions, and, in response, the anesthesiologist discusses the importance of blood pressure and the effect that an expectant mother’s low blood pressure may have on her baby. Epidurals can cause low blood pressure. But he doesn’t think the epidural is the problem. Still, whatever is causing the problem, the whole scene is quite alarming. The C-section room down the hall is being prepared, just in case. Rachel and I are very glad when Rachel’s doctor arrives.

It is determined that Rachel will need to lie on her side because our daughter seems to do better in this position. Indeed, her heart rate has recovered significantly—i.e., back in the 150’s or 160’s. We’re then told by the attending nurse that she is supposed to wait to administer labor-inducing drugs until the baby has had a half an hour to recuperate.

At around 11 a.m., the attending nurse finally turns on the oxytocin—a Greek-named drug meaning “quick birth.” Shortly thereafter, the contractions start hitting hard. I’ve seen oxytocin work on two of my three boys this way, so I’m not surprised. I’m just glad that Rachel isn’t feeling them. Still, we’re told that the hospital policy is to keep the contractions “below 400” (whatever that means). And then we’re told that Rachel’s contractions are “easily at or over 500.” As I look at the real-time graph on the monitor screen, it becomes clear to me that my daughter’s heart rate is suffering because of the hard contractions. Indeed, I can hear the pounding clicks from a machine that measures my unborn daughter’s heart beat slow down every time Rachel has a contraction. More alarms. More nurses. More calls to Rachel’s doctor. Eventually, the attending nurse cuts back on the oxytocin, and, as the contractions remain “off the chart,” she cuts the oxytocin altogether.

Just after the noon hour, Rachel’s doctor comes in to again assess the situation. He is not surprised to see how quickly Rachel has progressed, and he explains his reasons to the attending nurse. He leaves the attending nurse with instructions to keep monitoring the situation, and he says that he is confident that he’ll be called back soon to deliver the baby. The attending nurse seems doubtful. But, unlike Rachel’s doctor, she wasn’t there when Nicholas was born.

Sometime after 1:00 p.m., the attending nurse follows up on Rachel’s progression and is stunned to find that that baby is about to be born. She commands that Rachel not to push until she has had a chance to call Rachel’s doctor. Fortunately, Rachel’s doctor is in his office just two floors down. He is dressed in delivery garb and ready to go. Within minutes after his arrival, our baby girl is born. Both she and Rachel are doing very well.

After our daughter is born, it is determined that a “true knot” in her cord was likely the cause of her distress during labor. Evidentially this occurs in less than half of one percent (.521%) of all pregnancies. But Rachel and I are very relieved when her Apgar scores come back as nines.

Rachel and I decide to name our baby girl Eliana—which is Hebrew for “God has answered.” We will call her Ellie for short—which is a reference to light and life itself. Welcome, Ellie, to your new home. Welcome.




Thursday, August 02, 2007

Kids say . . .

Here's a post of some funny things that have come out of my kids lately.

Nicholas:
Nicholas is pretty good about eating everything. And lately, he'll say "like it" when he REALLY likes something. So the other night at dinner, he was really enjoying his corn on the cob and asked for more. He said, "More Porn. Like it Porn!!" Isn't that sweet?

When Sam and Benjamin were fighting, Benjamin started crying. Nicholas turned to me and said, "Benjin crying. Sammy bad, bad bad!!" It never ceases to amaze me how quickly kids catch on to things.


Benjamin:
Benjamin: I’m sick.
Josh: No you aren’t
Benjamin: Then how come I have a fever?
Josh: Buddy, you don’t have a fever.
Benjamin: I do -- I can prove it. Every time I check my temperature with a thermometer, it tells me F for fever.

Sam:
Sam: Did you know Tarantulas can talk?
Josh: No they can’t.
Sam: Yes they can -- they have to talk to mate.
Josh (ears perked): What do you mean?
Sam: Well, one Tarantula has to asks another tarantula to mate, and the other one has to say if they want to.
(And thankfully the conversation ended there . . .)

Friday, July 27, 2007

8 random things about me... tagged

Tagged..

Here are the rules:

A. Each player lists 8 facts/habits about themselves.
B. The rules of the game are posted at the beginning before those facts/habits are listed.
C. At the end of the post, the player then tags 8 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know that they have been tagged and asking them to read your blog. I was tagged, so let the fun begin.....

1. When I was younger, I didn’t like chocolate. Now I wonder how I can possibly exist in a world where there isn’t a piece of chocolate cake available to me at all times.

2. I want to go to Italy some day. And the thing I want to see most in Italy is Michelangelo’s Pieta, which I believe is the most perfect piece of art ever created. (also, I am fully prepared for the fact that I will probably cry when I see it.)
3. I have never been to Disneyland or Disneyworld. My parents and brothers and sisters have all been multiple times, but not me.

4. I hate cleaning out the fridge. I would rather clean anything else than clean out old food from the fridge.

5. I really enjoy cooking and trying new recipes. I just wish that I had kids that shared in that. As it is, we eat tacos and french toast more than I would like.

6. I am more scared about getting an epidural than about the pain of natural childbirth. After complications from a failed spinal with Nicholas and having to go through the procedure to fix it, I would rather endure labor pain than get an epidural. (I am afraid to tell my doctor that because I’m sure he’ll look at me like I’m crazy -- which is the same look Josh gave me when I told him).

7. I don’t like being the center of attention. I prefer to sit back and watch.

8. I love children’s books -- both well written and well illustrated. Some of my favorites are:
A Mouse Told His Mother
Whatley's Quest
The Little Mouse, the Red Ripe Strawberry and the Big Hungry Bear
One Duck Stuck
Robin's Room
Alphabet Soup
The Three Little Dinosaurs
Petite Rouge

and now YOU are tagged..... (well, except that everyone has been tagged, so enjoy reading their list of 8!)

Thursday, July 26, 2007

The BEST Baby Shower EVER!!!

I have the best, most creative friends! They threw me a baby shower and it was absolutely adorable!!

It all started with the bedding set I bought . . .

Next came the most adorable invitations in a bottle, complete with sand and shells . . .


How cute are they?!!


Next came the cake . . .
Melanie asked what kind of cake I wanted. I said lemon sounded good. And she said she had never made a lemon cake before . . . so she tried out a dozen different recipes until she found the perfect one, that was SO very delicious!!


Then came the diaper cake . . .
It had little soaps, cute hair clips, a personalized onesie and wash cloth, and the tiniest bracelets! So adorable!!


And rounding it all up, the favors . . .
So cute and they smell so great!! I love them!!


All that's left now is the baby (12 days and counting!)

Thank you Laura!! Thank you Deena!! Thank you Claudia!! Thank you Andrea!! Thank you Melanie!!

Friday, July 20, 2007

I'm changing my look!

Have you ever wondered what you would look like as a cartoon character. No? Well, neither did I . . . until I came upon this website:
http://morph.cs.st-andrews.ac.uk//Transformer/

Here is what Josh and I would look like. I think I'll stick to human!!


Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Josh

Saturday was Josh's birthday. For him, the perfect day would be not recognizing it was his birthday -- not getting presents -- not having cake, just a normal day. Of course, being a dad, he realizes that his birthdays are no longer about him but about a chance for the boys to celebrate him.

So what did Josh decide to do on his birthday? He told the boys that he wanted to go to Chuck E. Cheeses! Once there, Josh spent all his "birthday" tokens playing games to win the boys tickets.

When it was time to open presents, Josh opened two transformers -- then gave them to Sam and Benjamin and told them that his kids gave him the greatest happiness in life, and to thank them he wanted them to share his presents.

Probably not the most exciting birthday for a 30+ year old, but what a fun birthday for his kids.

How lucky are we?!!



Friday, July 06, 2007

Handsome Haircut

I have always been a fan of short hair on my boys. If their hair even hints at touching the tips of their ears, off it goes. So, it kind of surprised me that I let Nicholas' hair get so long. I just couldn't bring myself to cut it, for whatever reason.




But, finally it got to be too much, and I took him in. When it was over, I realized why I had let his thin, stringy hair get so long . . . because it kept him looking like a baby. Now with his new "handsome haircut" (as he calls it), he looks all grown up. Baby Nicholas has been replaced by just Nicholas.




I knew it was bound to happen, but I was hoping for later rather than sooner. Bye-Bye stringy mullet hair, bye-bye baby . . . Hello Mr. Nicholas.

Friday, June 08, 2007

Sam and the Snake

Sam is a snake lover. He has at least 15 books on snakes. He's read the books so much that he can identify and list characteristics of most of them. And if we try to skip the snake house at the zoo . . . well, let's just say we don't. A few weeks ago, at the Father and Son camp out, Sam had his first real life encounter with a snake. It is priceless!
(just so you know, Sam is saying "a coral snake")

Monday, June 04, 2007

Things I need to learn to love
(WARNING: long post ahead!)

I was thinking today, as I pondered three whole summer months at home with three wild boys, that I should focus on the positive. To ensure my sanity, I started to make a list of all the things I love about my boys, thinking that if I could keep the good in mind, I could make it through the summer. Making a list of things I liked was easy. For example:

I love that Sam is so creative. You can give him a piece of paper and a string, and he can create a whole universe out of it.

I love that Benjamin is so self motivated. He taught himself to read because he wanted to be like Sam.

I love that Nicholas is so happy. All you have to do is say “Nicholas!” and he will smile and laugh and brighten your day.



Then I started thinking about the things I wish I could change about the boys. But, it occurred to me that trying to change them would not be easy. So I wondered if I could change the way I viewed the aspects of their personalities I found annoying. And that is how I came up with this list . . .

What I need to learn to love about Sam
1. His sense of humor. Sam loves to have fun! Although Sam can be silly at inappropriate times, I need to be grateful that he loves to laugh and he loves to look for fun. I need to appreciate the fact that he likes to make people laugh. He has a temper to match his sense of humor, so I should be doubly grateful when he chooses to look on the bright side of life!

2. His stubbornness. It is true that once Sam has set his mind to something, it is next to impossible to sway him another way. But at the same time, I need to be grateful that Sam knows what he wants and that he has a determination to get it. You have to admire the fact that a 7 year old will not back down when he has made up his mind (at least in some instances!)



What I need to learn to love about Benjamin

1. His Tenderness. Benjamin is so tender. The minute he has done something wrong, he immediately feels bad. Sometimes, in my impatience, I tell him to suck it up and quit crying like a girl (I guess he got the tenderness I lack . . .), but I need to appreciate the fact that he has such a caring heart. He would never dream of causing anyone pain on purpose. What a wonderful gift!

2. His sense of Justice. Lately, Benjamin has been asking, “what about me.” I told Sam that if he read 7 chapter books, I would take him out for dessert. Sam hates to read and needs encouragement. Benjamin, on the other hand, loves to read and needs no external motivation. But as soon as he heard my deal with Sam, he said, “What about me?” It has started to get annoying. However, I need to be grateful that Benjamin demands equality, not just for himself, but for everyone else. If I buy him a hot wheels car at Walmart, he makes sure I buy cars for Sam and Nicholas. He doesn’t like the feeling of being left out, and he doesn’t like to leave anyone out.


What I need to learn to love about Nicholas
1. He CLIMBS! Nicholas can climb up anything -- and he frequently does. It makes me crazy and I feel like I have to follow him around everywhere. However, on the bright side, I need to appreciate his sense of adventure. He loves the thrill. Along with that, he has the ability to keep up with Sam and Benjamin who are considerably older.

2. He doesn’t give up. This goes along with the climbing. He climbed on the chairs to stand on the dining table. So we keep the chairs on the table. His response? Push something over to the table to get up. He is so persistent when he has a goal in mind and there is no distracting him. And while I am afraid for his life sometimes, I have to admire that he doesn’t give up. Even at 18 months, he has set a goal for himself and he doesn’t forget it, and he doesn’t stop until he has achieved that goal. So far that has led him to the top of the bunk beds, the top of the kitchen counter and the top of the chairs that are on top of the dining table, among other things!


This is by no means the end of the list, but it is a start . . . and it has been eye opening.
I have a lot to learn from my boys!

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Fun Things if You Have a Moment to Spare

I love the internet. I have always loved the internet. In fact, when I was in college I worked for an internet company and got paid to be on the internet ALL DAY LONG. Now, of course, I don't have that luxury. My moments spent on-line have to be brief and productive. No time to browse, got to get straight to the good stuff. So, I thought that I would share some of the things that I have found on-line and love!




This is the most luxurious thing in the world. I've only tried the mango butter bun, but it is heaven in a box!

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These fun fabrics make me smile. Who couldn't love pink and brown stripes and polka dots?

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I found this on line following a link. I haven't actually made one. But it is so cute and I want to. Not that mine would ever turn out like that . . .

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Ok, so I haven't made these either. But they look like fun. And if I actually had a memo board, I would totally make them!

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And last, but not least - I added some blogs on the right under the heading "Fun Blogs to Love". They are great blogs, with great ideas, and sometimes, great give-a-ways. They are good for when you truly have a moment to spare.

ENJOY!



Monday, April 23, 2007

The Antics of Nicholas

Nicholas is a very, VERY daring kid. He wants to climb and climb and climb. We have to put our dining chairs up on the table every morning because he uses those to get up on the table and jump around. We have to keep the boys' room door shut because he can climb to the top bunk bed. We have to keep the office door closed because he can climb up on the desk and cause all kinds of chaos. We have to keep the bathroom doors closed because he can climb up the drawers to the counter. We have to put the boys' bikes up on the trash can out back because Nicholas can climb on them.



This morning, someone forgot to close the bedroom door. Nicholas didn't run to the bunk beds like he usually does. Instead, he tried something new. He climbed up on the boys' dresser. Of course, when he realized he couldn't get down, he got nervous and called for help. I am surprised that Benjamin is the one with the broken arm!



When our safety precautions are done right and all the door are properly closed, Nicholas finds other ways to occupy his time. Instead of climbing up, he climbs in.



I can honestly say there is NEVER a dull moment with Nicholas around!
Not Again . . .

When Benjamin was 2, he broke his arm -- not a big break, just a small fracture. He was running in the hall, tripped and landed wrong. So he had to be in a splint for 8 weeks.


On Friday, he fractured the same arm again. The boys were playing in their room . . . Benjamin got "pushed" off the bunk bed ladder . . . He says Sam did it on purpose, Sam says it was an accident . . . 2 hours later, he's home with another splint on his arm.



He's being a pretty good sport about it though. He gets to sit on the couch and watch TV so his arm can be propped up to reduce swelling. And he doesn't have to clean his room -- too hard to do with one arm. And he doesn't get in trouble for saying things like "We need to break Sam's arm so he knows how it feels!!" I guess when you have 3 small boys in the house, something like this is bound to happen.

Poor Benjamin!!

Thursday, April 05, 2007

Texas Traditions

Every year I want to take pictures in the bluebonnets. But every year I ask myself, why do I want to take pictures of three boys in a field of flowers? Will they have bad memories -- "Remember when mom made us take girly pictures in the flowers?" Am I going to permanently scar them for life? So I don't do it. But this year there is a field right around the corner from our house . . . so convenient, so simple. So, last night I made the boys get dressed up and trudge through a field of flowers. I don't know what I was expecting. Honestly, How excited and cooperative can three young boys be standing in a field of fragrant blue and purple flowers? Even the promise of cake at home was not enough to elicit total cooperation. The only thing I can say about the pictures is that they sure showcase each boy's individual personality!







Tuesday, March 20, 2007

The surprise of the century!
(for our family at least!)



The ultrasound tech said that she is 99.9% sure and hasn't been wrong in the 8 years she's been doing this. I am still a little skeptical . . . :)

Thursday, March 15, 2007

How Hard is it to Take Pictures?

My kids usually beg me to take their picture. They ask me to take pictures of their sports, their hide-out creations, their artwork . . . But try to get them to pose for a "real" picture, and the have different ideas. After one hour and 30+ pictures, we gave up. Here are the "best" pictures.